Myswizard

GOES AROUND, COMES AROUND

Each of us has a list of the people in our lives that we know we can count on. And for most of us, if not all, that list is very short, and not because we’re not loving or friendly or caring.

It’s because most of our relationships exist to serve us.

When you call a friend to go to a movie or to come over to watch a game, you’re not doing it for them; you’re doing it for you. True, they might enjoy themselves in the process. But that’s not usually the goal.

It’s because rather than seeking people to give to, we focus on seeking people who can give us. So when we call our friends looking for someone to hang out with, we’re no better than a telemarketer calling us during dinnertime. A telemarketer wants something from us; we want something from our friends.

We end up limiting ourselves by spending most of our time with people who give to us, rather than focusing on finding people who we can give to.

The problem is that sometimes we feel we need someone — we don’t need anyone. Our energy — which means our confidence, inspiration, self-worth, strength — all that needs to come from the Lightforce of the Creator, and not a human being. It’s not wrong to want human contact, but it’s much more powerful to have it and not be needy for it.

Have you ever looked around you and felt like you didn’t understand the people in your life, or they didn’t understand you? Perhaps you felt inferior, or even superior? It’s because we’re not seeking souls to give to. We’re seeking souls that will give us.

This week, I’d like to challenge you to think about your relationships. And not just think differently, but act differently.

Rather than analyze what do you get from each of your relationships, instead ask yourself:
• How can I be of service to this person?
• Do I really know this person’s issues?
• Does this person know how I feel about them?
• Am I in this relationship as a vessel (taker), or as the Light (giver)?
If we share properly, we will always get back. That’s the nature of the universe. We might not get it back immediately, but we need to know that what goes around, comes around.

And this week, if we move away from being a taker and get closer to being a true giver, we’ll create a huge shift not only for ourselves, but for the world.

All the best,
Yehuda