Monkey mind or monkey brain, as it is often called, are words that have been used to describe the state one is in when one cannot stop the flow of thoughts constantly streaming through the mind. People are always saying, “But I can’t stop thinking!” Thoughts are flowing through the mind at a rate that’s mind boggling. We often feel at the mercy of our thoughts…, analyzing, rationalizing, judging, computing, remembering, and imagining, both unconsciously and deliberately. Our minds seem to be seldom silent. Even in the dream state, our minds are working. Our mind however, is really silent the vast majority of the time. Our thoughts arise from The Field, independent of each other. It is our agonizing over things, which exhaust the mind and body as we ruminate.
So, when does our mind rest? Peculiarly, the mind doesn’t need rest; It needs to be
taught or trained: 1.) how to see the flow of our thoughts and let each one go, one thought at a time.(meditation) 2.) how to organize thoughts so they don’t overwhelm us. 3.) how to think with deliberation and intention. Here are a few beginning exercises to do:
Get comfortable and sit in a quiet place. Focus on your breath, inhaling deeply, and then exhaling slowly. Think of your mind as a river and the thoughts as boats floating down the river gently going their own way and disappearing into the distance. Watch each thought as it arises, flowing downstream and out of site. You are not attached to any of them. They are of no importance. As you do this consciously, you will have less and less attachment to them, realizing they are not you. This is meditation. Remember thoughts are things, so be aware of the content as they float by and ask if this is truly meaningful as you let it go. If it doesn’t serve you, let those types of thoughts become meaningless in your life, also.
In order to organize thoughts, we must have order, so this is a little exercise to keep thoughts from overwhelming us. 1.( Make a list of things that are hanging in your life that you would like to finish. 2.) List anything you’re confused about or that makes you feel uncomfortable, strange, tired, upset or weird. 3.) What makes you feel exhausted when you think about it? After you have this list, do a little self-analysis about the things (on the lists) that you can handle, or what you need, to know more about each subject. Then put the lists away and see how you feel. You should have renewed energy and those things shouldn’t be hanging around your mind anymore. If any remain, do the exercise over.
Now about thinking with deliberation and intention. This requires a lot more practice. It’s a much longer road to training the mind to think the way you want it to and not how it’s been programmed since birth. Start with this exercise…1.) Concentrate all your attention on a single object for 2 minutes. Anytime within the 2 minutes you find your attention wandering, bring it back. Continue with other objects. You should feel more focused and relaxed. 2.) Breathing in, notice something far away. Breathing out, notice something close. Repeat 10 times. Result: recovery of perspective. 3.) This exercise is like Simon says, only you are the leader. Before any action, even scratching your head, Stop, Verbalize your intended action, then Do it. Continue for 5 minutes. (i.e.) Stop, “Now I will climb the stairs”, climb the stairs, then …Stop, “Now I will turn right”, turn right, then Stop, Now “I will enter the living room,” enter the living room, then Stop, etc. This will place your behavior under your control. See article on “Money” for The Resurfacing book. The book is the complete beginning course on getting your life and your will under your control.